Taking your premature baby home: what to expect and watch out for. After spending time in the NICU, bringing your premature baby home is a huge milestone, but it can also feel overwhelming. As parents, it’s natural to feel unsure about how to care for a baby who requires special attention. From monitoring feeding schedules to understanding signs of distress, you’ll need to stay vigilant. This post will guide you through what to expect during this transition and highlight important things to watch out for to ensure your baby's safety and comfort.
If your baby was born prematurely, you may greet your D-Day, or day of discharge, with an uncomfortable mixture of joy and trepidation. You’re finally able to take your baby home, but you’re also leaving the safety and security of 24-hour medical care. Remember first and foremost that your baby will not be discharged unless your doctors and nurses believe that your baby is absolutely ready for this step. Here’s how to care for a premature baby at home.
Health challenges facing premature babies
Any baby born before 37 weeks gestation is considered to be premature, and they can often have serious health challenges, including issues with temperature regulation, feeding, apnoea (irregular breathing) and the need for oxygen supplementation, or jaundice. For these reasons, your “preemie” may spend weeks or even months in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). Thankfully, with medical support and growth, immature organs can eventually recover and function independently in most cases.
Many premature babies who are discharged no longer need specialised medical care, but they will need supportive care once they’re home. For some, medical needs will continue even once they have been allowed to go home. Your discharge will most likely coincide with a meeting to discuss a follow-up medical care plan that includes visits to a paediatrician and any specialists that may be involved. Take charge, ask questions, make notes and diarise your appointments so that you feel as though you are in full control once again of this little life.
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Basic requirements for discharge for premature babies & care at home
Before being discharged, your baby must meet at least the following basic requirements:
- Maintain their body temperature in an open crib for 24 to 48 hours, depending on how premature your baby was at birth.
- Take all feeds by bottle or breast, without supplemental feedings.
- Be gaining weight steadily.
Some babies reach this point two to four weeks before their original due date. However, babies who have had surgery, those who have needed long-term assistance with breathing, or those who are born with special needs may stay in NICU way beyond their scheduled due date.
“Many preemies may need to see early intervention specialists to ensure that they are meeting their milestones.”
Medical needs of premature babies after discharge
Your baby probably won’t need specialised medical care after discharge, but will require regular medical care and evaluation to see that they are growing and developing well. However, there are some common medical challenges that many premature babies face in the long term.
- Apnoea: Many premature babies have episodes of apnoea, or pauses in breathing, that improve as the baby gets older. Your baby will not be discharged from hospital if this apnoea causes a slow heart rate or a change in colour. However, they may be sent home with a breathing monitor because the apnoea is minor and only requires stimulation to help your baby breathe again. If this is the case, it would be a good idea to invest in a breathing monitor and also to take a course in infant CPR, to ensure you’re well prepared.
- Other breathing problems: Premature babies often have breathing difficulties and may need supplemental oxygen. Sometimes this need persists even after discharge and your baby may then be sent home with equipment to administer oxygen.
- Infections: Your baby’s immune system may not develop fully for a longer-than-average period of time. Be vigilant when it comes to keeping them safe from possible infections, for example, from other people or by going out in public places.
- Developmental needs: Many preemies may need to see early intervention specialists to ensure that they are meeting their milestones. Remember, if a delay is picked up early, with some help, your baby can catch up quickly.
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Caring for your premature baby at home
- It is best if you plan for a few quiet weeks at home. Your baby’s immune system is still developing, so you need to ensure that visits outside the home are limited for the first few weeks to doctors’ appointments only, especially if you are discharged in the winter months.
- There are often viruses floating around doctors’ offices, so organise to wait in an examination room instead of the main waiting room when you go for your appointments. Most doctors will recommend that you don’t visit public places during the first few weeks and that you limit your home visitors. Anyone who is ill should not visit; there should be no smoking inside your home, and visitors should wash their hands before holding your baby.
- Feeding and sleeping are especially important to your baby’s health and they might sleep more often than a full-term baby, but for shorter periods at a time. Your preemie will need 8 to 10 feeds per day, with no more than four hours between feeds. Six to eight wet nappies a day are a good indication that your baby is getting enough breast milk or formula.

What is kangaroo care?
Kangaroo care is a way of holding a baby that maximises skin-to-skin contact between parent and child. Medical professionals strongly advise parents to incorporate as much skin-to-skin time with your baby, and this is particularly beneficial for preemies. Studies have shown that the benefits of kangaroo care include:
- increases bonding between the parent and child;
- it can help stabilise your baby’s heart rate and regulate their breathing;
- improves your baby’s oxygen saturation levels and regulates their body temperature;
- boosts your breast milk supply;
- improving a premature baby’s overall health;
- may have a positive impact on your baby’s brain development.
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Ensure that you have warmed the room well. Remove all of your baby’s clothing, except for the nappy, and lay them on your bare chest with their head to the side so you’re able to stimulate all of their senses. Don’t be surprised if your little one nods off – this is incredibly soothing for them! Remember to take care of yourself also so that you can take care of your tiny baby!
The Chris Hani Baragwanath hospital has started a Kangaroo Mother Care Unit in ward 40. The unit aims to also start a self-help group for mothers of these premature babies. Nursing staff, allied medical disciplines and mothers who have had premature babies, will be involved.
You can find out more about this initiative here.
FAQS: Taking your premature baby home: what to expect and watch out for
When is my premature baby ready to come home?
Your baby is usually ready to go home when they can:
- Maintain their body temperature
- Breathe independently
- Feed well and gain weight
- Have stable vital signs
This is assessed by the neonatal team before discharge.
What should I expect in the early days at home?
Expect a period of adjustment. Premature babies may still need frequent feeds, extra warmth and quiet environments. You’ll be building confidence as you get to know your baby’s cues and needs.
Do I need special equipment at home?
You may need:
- A thermometer to check body temperature
- Preemie-sized nappies and clothing
- Feeding equipment, if bottle or tube feeding continues
- A car seat tested and approved for low-birth-weight infants
Your hospital may advise on any specific needs.
How do I know if my baby is feeding enough?
Track wet nappies, weight gain and alertness. Premature babies may feed more slowly or need smaller, more frequent feeds. Your paediatrician or health visitor will monitor progress.
Should I be concerned about infections?
Yes. Preemies have weaker immune systems, so minimise visitors, practise good hand hygiene and avoid crowded places. Notify your GP if your baby has a fever, trouble breathing or feeding difficulties.
Can I take my baby outside?
Yes but take precautions. Avoid extreme weather, keep your baby warm, and limit exposure to strangers. Short, gentle outings are fine if your baby is healthy and your healthcare team agrees.
Will my baby sleep differently from a full-term baby?
Premature babies often sleep more but wake more frequently. Safe sleep guidelines still apply: place your baby on their back in a cot, with no soft bedding, and in the same room as you for at least 6 months.
What follow-up care will my baby need?
Most premature babies need regular follow-ups with:
- A paediatrician
- A developmental specialist
- Hearing and vision screening
This helps track growth, motor skills, and overall health.
Are developmental delays common in premature babies?
Some delays are normal, especially in motor skills or feeding. Use your baby’s corrected age (based on due date) when assessing milestones, and speak to your health visitor about any concerns.
How can I support my baby’s development?
Provide gentle stimulation like soft talking, skin-to-skin contact and tummy time (when supervised and awake). Avoid overstimulation and follow your baby’s cues for rest.
How can I care for myself during this time?
You’ve been through a lot. Accept help, rest when you can and talk openly about your emotions. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. If you’re struggling, speak to your GP or a counsellor.
Disclaimer: This content is for general information and does not replace medical advice. Always consult your paediatrician or neonatal care team for personalised guidance based on your baby’s specific needs.
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