Izizathu ezenza ngingakwazi ukuthola umvuthwandaba wenjabulo yocansi – Orgasm

Wonke umuntu kuzo zonke lezi zimo uyalingisa. Futhi benza ngoba kubantu abaningi, ukuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi akulula kangako.

Futhi eqinisweni, ukuba ne-orgasm kudinga ukuthi sibe sesikhathini, sithole uhlobo olufanele lokuvuselela, ukuze singaphazanyiswa yisithombe somzimba, singakhathazeki ngokuthi izingane zizongena, noma mayelana nalelo alamu elikhala kude, noma lowo mhlangano omkhulu ozoba nawo kusasa, noma ukhathazeke ngokuthi awunawo i-orgasm.

Nakuba abadlali benza i-orgasm ibukeke ilula, benza impendulo efundiwe ngokomzimba, ikakhulukazi labo bethu abanesitho sangasese sowesifazane! Ngakho-ke yiziphi ezinye izizathu zokuthi ube nesikhathi esinzima sokufinyelela kumvuthwandaba wenjabulo yocansi.

1. Ukucabanga kakhuluLokhu kubalwa kuqala ngesizathu. Iningi labantu lizabalaza ukuthola i-orgasm ngoba licabanga ngokweqile, lizama kanzima noma liyaphazamiseka. Lapho nje singena emakhanda ethu, ubuchopho bethu bukhetha ukugxila kuleyo micabango kunokuba sigxile emizweni esiyizwayo emizimbeni yethu kanye nenjabulo evame ukumaka amabhokisi ethu.

   Ukuba semakhanda ethu kanye nokuphazanyiswa yinoma yimiphi imicabango (indlela esibukeka ngayo/esinuka ngayo/esinambitheka ngayo, inkinga yomsebenzi noma yomndeni, noma ukuzwa uthukuthelele umlingani wakho) kufana “nokucisha” ngokushesha ukuze uphendule ucansi.

   Uma amaklayenti engithinta ngoba edonsa kanzima ekutholeni i-orgasm, enye yezinto zokuqala engiyenzayo ukuwasiza ukuba abuyele emizimbeni yawo. Ukushintsha ukugxila kwakho kusuka emicabangweni kuye emizweni (njengokucindezela, izinga lokushisa) kungaba isinyathelo sokuqala esincane esenza umehluko omkhulu kakhulu.

2. Awutholi uhlobo olufanele lokukhuthazwa
   Nakuba ubuchopho buyisitho sethu socansi esibaluleke kakhulu, kunezindawo ezithile emizimbeni yethu ezidinga ukuthintwa nokukhuthazwa uma sifuna ukwenza i-orgasm. Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuthintwa nje izitho zangasese, futhi abantu abaningi bathola ukutotoswa izindlebe noma isinqe noma izinyawo kujabulisa kakhulu.Nakuba ubuchopho buyisitho sethu socansi esibaluleke kakhulu, kunezindawo ezithile emizimbeni yethu ezidinga ukuthintwa nokukhuthazwa uma sifuna ukuthola umvuthwandaba wenjabulo yocansi. Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuthintwa nje izitho zangasese, futhi abantu abaningi bathola ukutotoswa izindlebe noma isinqe noma izinyawo kujabulisa kakhulu.

   Isizathu sokuthi abantu abanesitho sangasese sowesifazane bafinyelele umvuthwandaba ngo-19% kuphela ngesikhathi socansi ingoba i-clitoris yabo ayikutholi ukukhuthazwa okungaguquki okudingayo.

   Thola leso sitho esincane somzimba ukunakwa okufanele kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuhlola futhi uthole ezinye izindawo emizimbeni yakho okumnandi ukuzizwa.

3. Imithi yakho ibulala ubumnandi
   Ngokuvamile asicabangi okwesibili ngocansi lapho udokotela esinikeza imithi; sithatha lokho okuphakanyiswe ukudambisa noma yikuphi ukugula esibhekene nakho.Kepha lokhu kuyadingeka ngempela kube umbuzo owubuza udokotela wakho: “ingabe le mithi izoba nomthelela empilweni yami yocansi?”

   Umuthi ojwayeleke kakhulu onqunywe emhlabeni wonke – ama-antidepressants (osebenza kahle kakhulu ekwelapheni ukudangala nokukhathazeka) – ngeshwa angumdanso omkhulu. Ngakho-ke amathuba okuthi uma uwathatha, amandla akho e-orgasm azothinteka.

   Empeleni sinikeza ama-antidepressants emadodeni enza i-orgasm ngokushesha kakhulu! Eminye imishanguzo embalwa evamile engeyinhle kangako impilo yakho yocansi – umuthi womfutho wegazi kanye nama-antiepileptics.

4. Awuceli lokho okufunayo
   Kuyinkinga enkulu enomthelela omkhulu. Ngoba ulwazi lwethu lokuzijabulisa luyafundwa, uma ungazi ukuthi yini oyidingayo ukuze ujabulele, kungenzeka ukuthi awukuceli lokho okufunayo futhi uvele uhambisane nakho … akumnandi kuwe futhi kungalungile kumlingani wakho.
   Udinga ukugomela futhi usho ukuthi ufuna ukuthintwa kanjani, kuphi futhi nini. Lokhu ngeke kubonakale njengokucindezela noma ukufuna ngenkani – lokhu kuzozuzisa kuphela wonke umuntu ohilelekile! Funda, hlola futhi ucele…

5. Ukunaka injabulo yomlingani wakho ngaphezu kweyakho
   Uma ugxilisa kakhulu ukunaka kwakho kumlingani wakho ejabule, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi kuyingozi kangakanani enjabulweni yakho.Yeka ukukhathazeka uma bezijabulisa bese uqala ukuzikhathaza ngokuthanda kwakho siqu, okudingayo nokuthi yini ezoqinisekisa ukuthi unesikhathi esimnandi!