Many parents choose godparents for spiritual or emotional guidance, but legal guardianship involves very different rights and responsibilities under South African law. If you’ve ever wondered what the difference really is, and how to make the best choice for your family, this guide is for you.
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In South Africa, the terms godparent and legal guardian are often used interchangeably in everyday conversation, but they represent two completely different roles, one rooted in tradition and the other in law. Understanding the difference between godparents and guardians is essential for any parent making long-term plans for their child’s future care and well-being.
What Is a Godparent?
A godparent is typically selected during a religious or spiritual ceremony, such as a baptism or christening. The role is largely ceremonial and symbolic, with no legal obligations. Traditionally, godparents are chosen to help guide a child’s spiritual growth, acting as moral role models and supporting parents in raising their child with strong values.
In South African Christian traditions, godparents often make spiritual promises during a baptism, committing to help raise the child in accordance with their faith. However, there are no legal responsibilities tied to this role under South African law.
In multicultural and non-religious households, the term godparent may simply refer to a trusted adult who has a close emotional bond with the child. In this context, the godparent serves more as a mentor or extended family figure.
What Is a Legal Guardian?
A legal guardian is a person appointed to take full legal responsibility for a child’s care, typically if the child’s biological parents pass away or become unable to care for them. In South Africa, this is governed by the Children’s Act 38 of 2005, which defines a guardian as someone who can make important decisions on behalf of a child, including:
- Applying for a passport
- Managing the child’s finances
- Deciding on medical treatments
- Determining schooling and education
- Approving legal decisions (e.g., consent for marriage under 18)
Legal guardianship is a court-recognised position. It is not automatically granted by naming someone in a religious ceremony or even by labelling them as a “guardian” in informal documents.
Key Legal Differences Between Godparents and Guardians
| Aspect | Godparent | Legal Guardian |
|---|---|---|
| Legal Standing | No legal authority or rights | Legally appointed through will or court |
| Role Origin | Cultural or religious traditions | Children’s Act and legal system |
| Decision-Making Power | None | Full authority over child’s welfare and legal matters |
| Appointment Process | Chosen by parents during a ceremony or informally | Formally designated in a will or by a court order |
| Ongoing Responsibility | Emotional or spiritual support only | Full parental responsibilities when parents are unavailable |
| Recognition in Law | Not recognised under South African law | Fully recognised in legal proceedings |
How to Appoint a Legal Guardian in South Africa
To ensure your chosen guardian is legally recognised, you must specify the appointment in your last will and testament. Simply naming someone as a guardian in conversation or asking them to be a godparent carries no legal weight.
Steps to Legally Appoint a Guardian:
- Draft a legally binding will.
- Clearly state who you want to be your child’s legal guardian in the event of your death.
- Make sure your will is properly witnessed and signed.
- Notify the person in advance to ensure they are willing and prepared to take on the role.
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Review and update your will regularly, especially after life events like divorce, remarriage or relocation.
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Role of the Master of the High Court
Even if a guardian is named in your will, the Master of the High Court must approve the appointment after your death. The Master will consider the child’s best interests before confirming the guardian.
Common Myths About Godparents and Guardians
“If I name someone as a godparent, they’ll raise my child if something happens to me.”
False. Without legal documentation such as a will, your child could end up in state care or with next-of-kin not of your choosing.
“My child’s godparent automatically has guardianship.”
False. The term godparent is not recognised under the Children’s Act or any South African legal statute.
“I don’t need to worry because I have a big family.”
Without a formal legal appointment, family members may dispute custody, leading to court battles and instability for your child.
What to Consider When Choosing a Legal Guardian
This is a major decision with long-term consequences. Choose someone who:
- Shares your values and parenting philosophy
- Has the emotional capacity and stability to care for your child
- Is financially capable or has support systems
- Is willing to honour your wishes around education, religion, and lifestyle
- Has a strong and loving relationship with your child
It is also advisable to discuss your wishes openly with the person and document these in writing, in addition to your will.
Can Someone Be Both a Godparent and Legal Guardian?
Yes. In fact, some families intentionally choose the same person for both roles to ensure continuity of care and values. However, this dual role is only valid legally if guardianship is formally granted through a will.
What Happens if No Guardian Is Appointed?
If both parents pass away and no guardian is named:
- The child is placed in the care of the next-of-kin, or
- Becomes a ward of the state, under the oversight of the Department of Social Development
- The court may assign a guardian after a legal process involving family and welfare professionals
This can cause delays, emotional distress, and possible placement in foster care or children’s homes. To avoid this, a will is crucial.
What About Cultural Practices?
In many South African communities, cultural traditions influence who is considered responsible for a child. While respected socially, cultural norms do not override the law. If a guardian is not legally appointed, even a trusted elder or relative may not have any formal say.
The Bottom Line for Parents in South Africa
While both godparents and guardians play meaningful roles in a child’s life, they are not interchangeable. One provides spiritual and emotional guidance, while the other holds legal authority to act in a child’s best interests when parents cannot.
As parents, our responsibility goes beyond love and care, so we must prepare for the unthinkable. That includes ensuring our children are protected by the right people with the legal backing to act swiftly and decisively when needed.
References
- South African Government – Children’s Act 38 of 2005
https://www.gov.za/documents/childrens-act - Capital Legacy – Your will and guardianship
https://www.capitallegacy.co.za/article/87/your-will-and-guardianship - Law For All – Legal Guardianship in South Africa
https://www.lawforall.co.za/family-relationships/parenting/legal-rights-duties-parents-south-africa/
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