What to do when you’re confronted with road rage is a question every driver should be prepared for. Aggressive drivers can make the road a stressful place, but knowing how to respond calmly can prevent the situation from escalating. Instead of reacting with anger, it’s important to stay composed and focus on staying safe. In this post, we’ll explore the best ways to handle road rage, ensuring that you can keep your cool and continue your journey safely. Written by Arrive Alive, NGO.
Road rage has been described by Sally Davies, a clinical psychologist, as a social problem that appears to be increasing all over the world, along with traffic congestion and levels of frustration on roads.
It occurs when people who are already vulnerable to aggressive outbursts are led to express their rage and, more critically, direct it towards total strangers.
Davies says that from behind the wheel, it is so easy to personalise relationships on the road. We find ourselves in a position of power and safety, free to insult other drivers verbally, make moves that restrict or obstruct them, make aggressive gestures with hands, flash our lights, sound our horns, or otherwise act out fantasies of being “in charge” – as if we had been appointed Road Monitor.
There appears to be various reasons for extreme rage. Some people who have a prior history of severe outbursts might have mental disorders, assaulting others or destroying property owing to rage.
There are also other antisocial personalities, those who abuse drugs and alcohol or just your everyday motorist who is psychologically ripe for road rage. There is absolutely no point in antagonising any one of these people no matter what right you think you might have. It is just not worth it.
The following good suggestions come from our road safety friends in Canada, The Société de l’assurance automobile du Québec and CAA-Quebec, who urge drivers to avoid situations that can lead to confrontation.
“As motorists, we all have a responsibility and numerous opportunities to cool the emotional temperature on the roads.”
If a driver is putting pressure on you:
- If possible and safe, move to the left and let the other driver pass you.
If you are faced with aggressive behaviour:
- Stay calm.
- Avoid eye contact with the aggressive driver so as not to exacerbate the situation.
- Do not respond to provocative words or actions.
- Do not respond with disrespectful words or actions.
- Do what you can to avoid conflict.
If an aggressive person leaves their vehicle and heads toward you:
- Remain in your vehicle, make sure the windows are shut and doors locked.
- Avoid arguing with the aggressive driver, looking at the person or making provocative gestures.
- Leave the area and go to a place where you can get help.
- Do not go home if the aggressive driver is following you.
- If you’re in traffic and can’t drive away, pick up your cell phone and show the person you are calling the police.
- If the person doesn’t back off, honk your horn to attract the attention of other drivers.
- Note the make of the other driver’s car and his or her licence plate.
As motorists, we all have a responsibility and numerous opportunities to cool the emotional temperature on the roads.
Every small act of road courtesy, of giving way, a smile or gracious ‘thank you’ wave, making positive eye contact before you join a line, contributes to harmony. Remember, it is better to get there late than not get there at all.
BabyYumYum FAQs: What to Do When You’re Confronted with Road Rage
What is road rage?
Road rage is aggressive or violent behaviour by a driver, often triggered by frustration or perceived wrongdoing on the road. It can include shouting, rude gestures, tailgating or dangerous driving.
What should I do if another driver becomes aggressive?
Stay calm, don’t retaliate, and avoid eye contact. Focus on your own safety by keeping your distance and not engaging with the other driver’s behaviour.
Should I respond if someone yells or gestures at me?
No. Responding with anger or similar gestures can escalate the situation. It’s best to ignore them and concentrate on driving safely.
Is it safe to stop and confront the other driver?
No. Never stop to argue or confront another driver. Pulling over or getting out of your vehicle can put you at serious risk.
What if the aggressive driver follows me?
Stay in your vehicle, lock the doors, and drive to the nearest police station or busy, well-lit public area. Call the police if you feel threatened or unsafe.
Should I report road rage?
Yes. If the incident involves dangerous driving, damage, or threats, report it to the South African Police Service (SAPS) with details like the registration number, time, location, and vehicle description.
How can I prevent myself from becoming a road rage driver?
Plan your journey with extra time to avoid stress, stay calm in traffic, and listen to relaxing music. Avoid taking other drivers’ mistakes personally.
Can using a hooter cause road rage?
Excessive or aggressive hooting can provoke other drivers. Use your hooter only when necessary for safety, not to express frustration.
Are there laws in South Africa against road rage?
While there is no specific law called “road rage,” aggressive driving can fall under reckless or negligent driving, which is a criminal offence under the National Road Traffic Act.
What role does stress play in road rage?
Stress and fatigue can make you more irritable and reactive. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, take breaks on long journeys and prioritise rest and hydration.
Is dashcam footage useful in road rage incidents?
Yes. Dashcams can provide valuable evidence if you need to report an incident. Always ensure your footage is clear and saved correctly before submitting to authorities.
How can I teach my children or teen drivers to handle road rage?
Model calm, courteous driving. Teach them to avoid confrontation, drive defensively, and prioritise safety over ego. Emphasise that their response can make all the difference in a tense situation.
Disclaimer: This information is for general safety guidance and does not replace legal or emergency advice. If you feel in danger or witness road rage escalating, contact your local law enforcement immediately.
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